Monday, May 2, 2011

Rules for the newly single


Adjust
Being newly single can be a shocking reality check for some, but taking each day as it comes and having time on your side will help you to cope and readjust. Address feelings of failure, guilt, blame, frustration, loneliness or ‘what next’ that bubble up and mourn the end of the relationship if necessary.
Avoid becoming a booty call
While you may be missing physical contact with someone, avoid intimacy with the first guy who shows you attention. While you may think it will help to get over a break up and move on, you’ll more likely find that you’ll experience a lot of negative emotions and regret.
Resist jumping into another relationship
Getting involved in a rebound relationship is best avoided as you don’t take the time you need to get over the past relationship. It’s a misguided attempt at moving on as problems are usually disguised for a while, but tend to rear their ugly head before long leading to further pain and the potential to hurt someone.
Pamper (Totally agree with this point!!!)
While you don’t need an excuse to pamper yourself and shop, it always helps to console yourself or celebrate with a spot of retail therapy. If you’ve had your eye on something a little pricey for a while, now is the time to splurge.
Travel
You may have unloaded one lot of baggage, but it is time to pack those bags and get away. Never mind if your friends can’t join you; what better way is there to forget about lost love and contemplate the future while indulging in things that you want to do?
Get online
When you feel the time is right to date again, why not sign up to a dating website? While there are a lot of add balls out there, millions of people are now turning to the World Wide Web to meet a significant other, and there are plenty of success stories to prove it.
Rely on friends
Use them as an emotional rock, for comfort when you’re down, company when you’re lonely and to hook you up with their single friends when you’re ready to face dating again. They’ll be there to help you to adjust and to get back on that horse again.
Look your best (Totally agree with this point!!!)
It doesn’t matter where you are going; make sure you don’t look like you’re homeless. Make an effort, smile and be approachable. Not only will looking good on the outside make you feel good on the inside, but you just never know when you’ll run into that hunk!

In my own opinion, I think that girls(who just broke up with her bf) should just cry out loud for once and then continue with life!! Be happy and let him know that you won't die without him. Let him see how happy you are and that is the best way of revenge!! 
Just wait and god will know when is the right time to make your prince charming to appear in front of you.
Most importantly, STAY HAPPY AND PRETTY((:

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