Sometimes, it's in our nature to feel jealous when we see our partner with someone else (of opposite sex) or with an old flame. So, if he shows that he does not give two hoots about you going out with your ex or ogling at other hotties -- especially when he has jealous tendencies -- it may be a cause for concern.
#2. Your partner stops calling.
He used to talk to you over the phone daily and now he has stopped calling you. Is this a definite sign that it's over? Sure, he might be so busy at work that he doesn't have time to call. But if he's still into you, he'd at least make a quick call just to hear your voice. He has probably lost interest in you if he no longer does that.
#3. There's no longer trust in your relationship
If you are having a hard time believing anything he says after the relationship has been torn by his lies, it's hard to regain the trust overnight. If there's even a need to check up on your partner every time to see if he's lying, he's just not worthy of your time.
(So true!! So just stop wasting time!!!)
#4. Constant bickering.
We know argument is part and parcel of a relationship; it really gets on your nerves but constructive ones keep the sparks alive. If you find yourself frequently in a verbal brawl with him so much so that it affects other important things in your life, it's probably one reason for you to call it quits.
#5. You no longer feel the excitement
It's not your fault if you don't feel the flush of excitement you felt beginning of the courtship after a while. It's normal for passion to dwindle in a long-term relationship. So, you work hard to reignite the sparks, but when he's not excited about the relationship even after your efforts, get a grip -- it's very likely that you have been downgraded from a 'darling' to a 'has-been'.
You can always re-lit the sparks but you can never revive your relationship when your partner's cheated on you. As the old adage goes: once a cheater, always a cheater. If he's seeing someone else, there's no point trusting him to stick with you for the long haul. It's a definite sign to call it quits.
#7. Your partner avoids talking about future plans.
Although he used to share about his future plans -- whether about marriage, kids or career -- with you, he no longer speaks a word about it now. And that probably because he does not plan to include you in anymore. Ask him about it and if he ducks the question, it proves that he's just not committed to you.
#8. You prefer hanging out with your friends.
Do you look forward to your buddy night-out more than an eat-in date with your partner? Or do you find him spending more time hitting the bar with his friends than meeting you? And if he never bothers to make an effort to spice things up in your relationship, then it might be a sign that you would be better off having your partner as a friend instead.
(I HATE THIS THE MOST!!!)
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